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Wed 02 Feb 2007The truth behind St Valentine's DayChocolate and roses are fine, but keeping romance alive takes hard work, relationship expert Malcolm Stern tells Grace Wynne-Jones.Falling in love is fabulous, everyone knows that. As you bathe in the glow of candlelit dinners and passionate kisses, how grateful you are that this gorgeous person has found you. As a writer of novels that explore the heart's longings I have described this blissful scenario many times, but I also feel great tenderness for any character who steps eagerly into the love jungle. This is because I know that while trudging through the undergrowth they will learn truths about love that they didn't particularly want to know. And those truths can make their love deeper.