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Tue 11 Nov 2002You've got nothing to be guilty of...Working mothers should wise up. You're helping no-one by feeling guilty, least of all yourself. Kathryn Holmquist thinks it's time for mums to stop being so hard on themselvesFor many women, guilt is the after-birth of pregnancy. Almost from the moment their babies are born, a sense of guilt floods in that almost that makes them afraid to put their babies down. We're afraid to let them cry (something they do naturally for up to four hours per day), we're afraid to let them eat the wrong food, watch the wrong TV, play with the wrong toys and, as they get older, we're terrified to let them out of the house.