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Tue 11 Nov 2002Daddy, I hardly knew youThink about it. Tony Humphreys urges fathers to spend time reflecting on how they got on with their own dadsIt was not so long ago that fathers were often perceived as remote, absent or neglectful - and not without justification. However, in their defense, little enough was expected of them other than to bring in the money, carve the Sunday joint and be the final arbiter or authority a mother might invoke to discipline her child.